maesie 0 Posted September 20, 2008 Member ID: 3,838 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 120 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 4,386 Content Per Day: 0.22 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 27,580 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 18/11/07 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 27, 2013 Birthday: 20/04/1979 Share Posted September 20, 2008 (edited) As many of you know, I have a cat who lives at home with my parents. She is 13 years old and was not being herself of late. I considered taking her to the vet before I left to come up to Deb's, but decided against it. I had a call from my sister tonight asking me when I was comming home as Sammi was not looking too good. I called her, and we decided it was best if they took her to the vet. Not long after that my sister called back in tears. They had to put her down She had kidney failure, ulcers in her mouth and through her body. The vet didn't think she had been suffering for too long. My sister held her whilst they did it and she didn't struggle at all... My sister said she looked at peace and was happy to let go... :hap: So... I'm feeling pretty upset. Mum and Dad will bury her tomorrow morning in the garden and I'll say a special goodbye when I get home. I know she had a great life, and there wouldn't have been anything I could have done if I was there... It's just hard. I did give her a big kiss and cuddle before I left, but wish I could have been there for her tonight. Well, that's all from me for now. Just wanted to share this with you all... maesie xoxo Sammi... Love you!!! (on a side note, also got told my Grandpa, who has been sick was taken to hospital tonight as well. He is not good and may not make it throught the night... mmm... ) Edited July 14, 2009 by maesie Link to comment
Neat 0 Posted September 20, 2008 Member ID: 3,275 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 321 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 5,171 Content Per Day: 0.26 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 31,845 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 27/03/07 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 25, 2010 Birthday: 22/05/1980 Share Posted September 20, 2008 NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I am soooooo sorry mate!!!! Oh I am saying a little prayer for Pop..... I hope he pulls through!!! Link to comment
Elly 0 Posted September 20, 2008 Member ID: 1,641 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 414 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 15,350 Content Per Day: 2.21 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 99,335 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/10/05 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 1, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2008 I am so sorry maisie hugs Link to comment
birdluv 0 Posted September 20, 2008 Member ID: 2,137 Group: Global Moderators Followers: 0 Topic Count: 144 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 4,842 Content Per Day: 0.24 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 31,670 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 14/03/06 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 30, 2018 Birthday: 06/04/1978 Share Posted September 20, 2008 l'm so sorry l'm praying for your grandpa. Link to comment
maesie 0 Posted September 20, 2008 Member ID: 3,838 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 120 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 4,386 Content Per Day: 0.22 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 27,580 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 18/11/07 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 27, 2013 Birthday: 20/04/1979 Author Share Posted September 20, 2008 Got a call this morning to say that my Grandpa died this morning at 2pm. I'm catching an early flight today at 12.30. Link to comment
jenene283 0 Posted September 20, 2008 Member ID: 2,071 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 149 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 910 Content Per Day: 0.05 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 6,880 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 21/02/06 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 26, 2017 Birthday: 28/03/1961 Share Posted September 20, 2008 Oh no! I am so sorry Maesie Words cant express how I feel for you. Just know that I am always here for you and PM me anytime of the day or night. Biggest hugs to you ooooxxxxxx Jenene Link to comment
**Liv** 0 Posted September 20, 2008 Member ID: 3,771 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 147 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 6,621 Content Per Day: 0.33 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 39,450 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 23/10/07 Status: Offline Last Seen: August 8, 2014 Birthday: 09/04/1911 Share Posted September 20, 2008 Oh No!!! Maesie I am so sorry Biggest hugest massive hugs. Link to comment
**KAZ** 0 Posted September 21, 2008 Member ID: 1,976 Group: Site Members Followers: 2 Topic Count: 521 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 25,294 Content Per Day: 1.27 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 152,977 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 24/01/06 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 6, 2015 Birthday: 07/01/1956 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Sweetheart Biggest hugs :angel1: We are all here for you to lean on....just wish we could be closer Link to comment
Elly 0 Posted September 21, 2008 Member ID: 1,641 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 414 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 15,350 Content Per Day: 2.21 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 99,335 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/10/05 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 1, 2012 Share Posted September 21, 2008 HUGS I am so sorry to hear this news (((HUGS))) Link to comment
birdluv 0 Posted September 21, 2008 Member ID: 2,137 Group: Global Moderators Followers: 0 Topic Count: 144 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 4,842 Content Per Day: 0.24 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 31,670 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 14/03/06 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 30, 2018 Birthday: 06/04/1978 Share Posted September 21, 2008 ohh nooo....... l'm so sorry l send me deepest condolences to you and your family ((((((((Hugs)))))))) Link to comment
*libby* 0 Posted September 21, 2008 Member ID: 3,634 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 60 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 2,442 Content Per Day: 0.12 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 15,475 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 24/08/07 Status: Offline Last Seen: February 9, 2011 Birthday: 10/11/1989 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Oh no! I'm sooo sorry to hear this Maesie I know EXACTLY how you're feeling right now Last november the 6th my Grampy had a car crash, he was taken to hospital and we were aware he was going to be leaving us, then 30 minutes before he passed away my 11 yr old cat Ran under Bob's car and got hit and died of shock Only last week my best mate's partner lost his grandad and had to put his cat down on the same day :| This seems like too common an occurance If you need to talk sweety you know where i am! Sending you big hugs and love xoxox! Link to comment
Sailorwolf 0 Posted September 21, 2008 Member ID: 1,536 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 84 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 2,753 Content Per Day: 0.39 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 16,870 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/09/05 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2008 I am so sorry to hear this. The biggest hugs in the world. We are all here for you to cry on. Hugs. May they both rest in peace. Link to comment
maesie 0 Posted September 21, 2008 Member ID: 3,838 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 120 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 4,386 Content Per Day: 0.22 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 27,580 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 18/11/07 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 27, 2013 Birthday: 20/04/1979 Author Share Posted September 21, 2008 Thanks so much everyone. I took an early flight home from Deb's and was met at the airport by my sisters. We have spent the rest of the day together and I am just home now. I'm totally exhaused. I feel numb and not myself. I went to Mum and Dad's to pick up the car, and went down to where they burried Sammi. I found myself crying and patting the soil on her grave. I miss her so much... She was always there when you needed a hug, and with my grandpa's passing, a great big Sammi hug and lick is what I needed. My parents are up with my grandma and the family. They are sorting out things and the funeral. It will be on Wednesday. They live 4 hours away, but I think we'll be driving up and back in the same day. It's going to be hard, long and very draining... I don't really know what else to say... life can be so cruel... I know they were both sick and are now at peace, but I wasn't ready to say good bye to either... Link to comment
*libby* 0 Posted September 21, 2008 Member ID: 3,634 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 60 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 2,442 Content Per Day: 0.12 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 15,475 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 24/08/07 Status: Offline Last Seen: February 9, 2011 Birthday: 10/11/1989 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Aww sweety We're all here for you so if you EVER need to talk you know where I am. As easy as it is to say, but hard as it is to do, don't think of it as you've lost them because you still have all the memories of the joy they brought to you and will one day see each other again, it's just tata for now Link to comment
maesie 0 Posted September 21, 2008 Member ID: 3,838 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 120 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 4,386 Content Per Day: 0.22 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 27,580 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 18/11/07 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 27, 2013 Birthday: 20/04/1979 Author Share Posted September 21, 2008 Aww sweety We're all here for you so if you EVER need to talk you know where I am. As easy as it is to say, but hard as it is to do, don't think of it as you've lost them because you still have all the memories of the joy they brought to you and will one day see each other again, it's just tata for now I know... when my sister told my 3 year old nephew, he said that we will see him again. She was explaining that we can't see him... he replied with 'yes we will mum. When we die and go to heaven, we will see him' Link to comment
birdluv 0 Posted September 21, 2008 Member ID: 2,137 Group: Global Moderators Followers: 0 Topic Count: 144 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 4,842 Content Per Day: 0.24 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 31,670 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 14/03/06 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 30, 2018 Birthday: 06/04/1978 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Aww sweety We're all here for you so if you EVER need to talk you know where I am. As easy as it is to say, but hard as it is to do, don't think of it as you've lost them because you still have all the memories of the joy they brought to you and will one day see each other again, it's just tata for now I know... when my sister told my 3 year old nephew, he said that we will see him again. She was explaining that we can't see him... he replied with 'yes we will mum. When we die and go to heaven, we will see him' awww.....that brought a tear to my eye when l read that. Link to comment
jenene283 0 Posted September 21, 2008 Member ID: 2,071 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 149 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 910 Content Per Day: 0.05 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 6,880 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 21/02/06 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 26, 2017 Birthday: 28/03/1961 Share Posted September 21, 2008 At times like this Maesie there are just no words that can ease your pain and I'm at a loss as to what I can do to make you feel a little bit better. Just know that we are all here for you. So dont hesitate to ring or PM me any time of the day or night. I just wish I could be there for you to give you a hug. Life can be very cruel as I have found out recently as well but take comfort in the fact that your grandfather and your cat are in a better place and although you are missing them both terribly, they are resting in peace.Take good care of yourself Maesie and please pass on my condolences to your family for me. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Jenene xoxoxoxox Link to comment
Neat 0 Posted September 22, 2008 Member ID: 3,275 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 321 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 5,171 Content Per Day: 0.26 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 31,845 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 27/03/07 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 25, 2010 Birthday: 22/05/1980 Share Posted September 22, 2008 I sent you a Pm My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family mate, I am truly sorry, I found my self prayer the other day for you and your pop ... Link to comment
Angelic Vampyre 0 Posted September 22, 2008 Member ID: 3,545 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 207 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 2,028 Content Per Day: 0.33 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 13,140 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 06/07/07 Status: Offline Last Seen: July 26, 2010 Share Posted September 22, 2008 *hugs* I lost my Nanna a few weeks back and I know how hard it is. Just make sure you don't push yourself and make some time for you as you're going to need it. If you ever need anything let me know. Link to comment
Sunnie 0 Posted September 22, 2008 Member ID: 3,666 Group: B.B.C Club Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 80 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1,470 Content Per Day: 0.25 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 8,830 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/09/07 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 10, 2013 Birthday: 20/01/1966 Share Posted September 22, 2008 My thoughts are with you Maesie.....so sorry to hear your news *hugs* Link to comment
Denise 0 Posted September 22, 2008 Member ID: 3,657 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 107 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 896 Content Per Day: 0.14 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 5,985 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/09/07 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 9, 2010 Birthday: 01/10/1964 Share Posted September 22, 2008 Very sorry to hear of your losses Maesie. :angel1: Link to comment
maesie 0 Posted September 23, 2008 Member ID: 3,838 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 120 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 4,386 Content Per Day: 0.22 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 27,580 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 18/11/07 Status: Offline Last Seen: June 27, 2013 Birthday: 20/04/1979 Author Share Posted September 23, 2008 Thanks to everyone for their thoughts, words and prayers. I have also received many PM's. Thanks so much and sorry I haven't replied to them. I'm finding things very hard and overwhelming. We have a 4 hour drive up and back to my grandpa's funeral tomorrow. It's going to be a very long day. Um... that's all I feel like writing for now... I hope everyone's birds are doing well... maesie xo Link to comment
**KAZ** 0 Posted September 23, 2008 Member ID: 1,976 Group: Site Members Followers: 2 Topic Count: 521 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 25,294 Content Per Day: 1.27 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 152,977 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 24/01/06 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 6, 2015 Birthday: 07/01/1956 Share Posted September 23, 2008 Biggest warmest hugs Maesie :angel1: Link to comment
Elly 0 Posted September 23, 2008 Member ID: 1,641 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 414 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 15,350 Content Per Day: 2.21 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 99,335 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/10/05 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 1, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2008 you are in my thoughts and prayers maesie Link to comment
deb 0 Posted September 23, 2008 Member ID: 3,867 Group: Site Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 198 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1,737 Content Per Day: 0.27 Reputation: 0 Achievement Points: 11,910 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/12/07 Status: Offline Last Seen: March 23, 2011 Birthday: 25/09/1970 Share Posted September 23, 2008 Big Hugs, Maesie. You and your family will be in my prayers and thoughts. Link to comment
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