September 24, 200816 yr Thinking of you fondly today and sending out some strength to you to make it through one of your toughest days :angel1:    Miss Me, But Let Me Go Author Unknown  When I come to the end of the road, and the sun has set for me. I want no rites in a gloom-filled room. Why cry for a soul set free? Miss me a little—but not too long, and not with your head bowed low. Remember the love that was once shared. Miss me, but let me go.  For this is a journey we all must take, and each must go alone. It’s all a part of the master’s plan, a step on the road to home. When you are lonely and sick of heart, go to the friends we know. Bear your sorrow in good deeds. Miss me, but let me go.  Edited September 24, 200816 yr by KAZ
September 24, 200816 yr okay Kaz, I have goose bumps that is the most sweetest thing I have read in a long while
September 27, 200816 yr Author Thank you everyone for your thought and prayers. The funeral was very hard, but something that had to be done. My grandma was so strong and my grandpa would have been so proud. My Mum is still with her and Dad came home today. It's all still very sureal... and then I go to Mum and Dad's for a visit and Sammi is not there to greet me at the door with a big hug... which I could so do with right now  You may have noticed I have been a little quiet. I am still around and still spend a bit of time on the BBC (good to keep my mind off things), but often don't have the energy/ability to comment. I'm doing okay, but times are still really hard to bare. Sometimes it's like nothing happened... and other times I find it hard to get out of bed. I know I will get there... It's just hard to see a way though...
September 27, 200816 yr One day at a time mate ... Â Take each day as it comes - you will have your good days and your bad days - But I am always here if you need a keyboard to cry on or a monitor to hug .... You know that I am a phone call away mate!! if you need to just be on the phone and not have to say anything but know someone is on the other end listening to you, thinking of you and crying with you ...
September 27, 200816 yr Author One day at a time mate ... Take each day as it comes - you will have your good days and your bad days - But I am always here if you need a keyboard to cry on or a monitor to hug .... You know that I am a phone call away mate!! if you need to just be on the phone and not have to say anything but know someone is on the other end listening to you, thinking of you and crying with you ...  Thanks mate... you guys are so great!!! It's so sweet to know you are there... xoxo
September 28, 200816 yr Hugs Maes..thinking of you, you'll get there but its a road not fun to travel. Kaz- have been to 3 funerals of people close to me this year and that was a poem that was read- it made me all goosey again.
September 29, 200816 yr Maesie you have been through so much this year, huge hugs is all I can offer plus anytime you need to talk PM me or e-mail me. I wish I lived closer so I could give you a real hug and not a virutal one. My prayers go out to you and your family.
July 8, 200915 yr Author My Granny, who lost her dearly beloved husband in Sept last year, is now nearing the end of her own battle with cancer. She went into care a little over a month ago for a 'rest' for two weeks, and then went home. She soon went back and has stayed ever since. She no longer gets out of bed, has a catheter in and sleeps a lot. She's still 'with it' which is a blessing, and has no pain (thanks to a morphine drip), but it's not 'Granny'. Although It pains me to think about loosing her, I am praying that she passes quickly and can be re-united with my Grandpa. I saw her a few weeks ago and Mum and Dad were up there yesterday. Dad has since come home but Mum has stayed there, so all her kids are together with her. Please keep them all in your thoughts.
July 8, 200915 yr Oh Babe tough tough times I have been where you are right now and it just sucks......
July 8, 200915 yr with your promishion i will keep her and you in my thoughts and light a candle of strength for you my dear friend remember you may call 24 /7 anytime any night i will only b a call away i know the feeling of being lost between wanting to let someone go yet wishing they were here its hard but you are strong maesie and letting the pain out in the form of tears raining down is never a bad thing so dont try to be to strong in times like these i know its hard to balance things like this dont be afraid to ask for guidance as their will b someone close by watching you you will be in my thoughts hun leeia xxxxxxxxxxBLESSED MAY YOU BE
July 9, 200915 yr i will keep her and you and your family in my prayers life really isnt that fair.... well be there with you for these hard times.. and will always there for you
July 9, 200915 yr I'm so sorry to hear this, l know how hard it is to go through this. I'm praying for your grandma and your whole family.
July 9, 200915 yr Author Thanks everyone... Yesterday she had a good day, sat up and had a cuppa, but today was a bad day. The ups and downs are so draining... :rofl:
July 11, 200915 yr My thoughts are with you, I have been there too with my nanna... its really hard xoxoxoxox Biggest hugs and kisses from me!
July 11, 200915 yr Author Thanks guys... Her morphin dosage has been increased, she feels no pain and spends her days sleeping. Her four kids (including my Mum) have a roster system going and they sit with her a read etc... as she doesn't speak much anymore. She's aware they are there I think, but yeah. I'm trying to stay busy, and keep my mind of it, while at the same time preparing for what is comming. I'm so tired, but can only imagine how they all must be doing up there with her...
July 11, 200915 yr So sorry to hear this maesie.... my thought's and wish's are with your family XxXxX
July 14, 200915 yr Author My Granny passed away this morning. She is now at peace and with her beloved husband. Her funeral in on Fri.
July 14, 200915 yr My Granny passed away this morning. She is now at peace and with her beloved husband. Her funeral in on Fri. Awww no I'm so sorry to hear the news... and yes she may now be with her husband up in the high sky's.... Â :rip: :rip: :rip:
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